Boundaries = Abundance.
I used to think people with boundaries were party poopers.
I thought they were stuck up, selfish & needy.
Fast forward about a decade of learning how much I sacrifice myself in the name of *literally anyone* & now I understand that boundaries aren’t selfish, they’re VITAL to your emotional & physical health. Not to mention your success.
You don’t just deserve to have your physical & emotional needs met - you deserve to have enough space for yourself to #FEMSPREAD in a satin two piece.
Here’s my boundary roadmap:
Stage 1 Realizing your physical needs aren’t being met
Stage 2 Learning to get loud about asking for what you need to have those met
Stage 3 Realizing your emotional needs aren’t being met/there’s no space for you in your job/relationship/friend group
Stage 4 Learning to get loud about asking for what you need so there is enough room for you (spoiler - this means dropping a lot of people in your life. Don’t let anyone tell you this part is easy, but how it feels on the other side is SO MUCH BETTER)
Stage 5 Realizing that you actually want more than you have. It’s not about your basic needs, it’s about something in your bones that craves more YOU. Taking risks & flexing different parts of your personality, experimenting w/ what you’re capable of.
Stage 6 Getting fed up enough to finally make a change. A big one, where you let yourself want things just to want it & you make huge decisions based purely off of your intuition (that by now you’re hella in touch with because of stages 1-5). You’re scared but the discomfort of staying in the same place finally overrides your fear of the unknown.
I’m pretty sure Stage 7 is rinsing & repeating Stage 5-6. Where you’ve reaped enough fun & pleasure & success that you just keep re-evaluating & experimenting w/ what else you’re capable of. I’ll keep you posted as I keep growing ;)
What stage are you in? What’s a boundary you need to make? 👑
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